What is one thing you've learned from life?
07.06.2025 20:49

Initially we were friends only but people used to say there is some chemistry between both of you. One of my friend said, Are you sure he is into you? because he is so handsome, he can get anyone (I was lean, brown skin tone girl that time, still I am dusky girl but because of physique now I look better). I felt multiple times that I am inferior to have him even though I am capable enough, independent and self respected girl, I started feeling under confident and because of that thought I used to fight with him over small issues by saying you don't love me, you can't.
In this process I learnt do not let outsider to define your relationship and values, you know what capability you have.
Varsha Singh
Don't allow anybody to control your happiness.
Never let others to ruin your self-respect.
Thanks for the crazy responses but I have seen people are judging without knowing the whole truth, he was with me, when I had nothing, today maybe I looks fine but long time back I used to not look good because I was under weight and I used to not do any care of skin. Below images spills the facts. We both have improved significantly physically, mentally and emotionally.
Never fight with loved ones just because of other's thought.
If you won't love yourself, how can you think others will love you?
Event : Our pre-wedding event
I used to feel bad & aggressive that why people are saying like this just because he is handsome and can show his intelligence then one day he said , see people has nothing to do with our lives, they will talk nonsense anyway and for me you are the most beautiful girl in this whole universe, I am dam sure, you are perfect for me, No once can support me & encourage me like you do.
Me and my boyfriend are together since 2015 & now getting married next year. We love, respect and care for each other a lot. He is handsome and I am not that much beautiful but still he loves me whole-heartily and makes things special between us.